I guess it started when I was a young teenager. Back then, no one ever asked for an ID. She may be surprised; she might like you back; she might need some time to think about what you said; What if your friends have no gay friends for it, in a worst-case-scenario, she may not want to stay friends — and that can be scary to imagine.
I guess I was most afraid that it would suddenly be the only thing people would see about me. But fear is a powerful thing, and it convinces you that nobody could possibly know your glaringly obvious secret, and that you should keep it a secret, because once you say it out loud, everything will be different.
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Reading comments and advice has been great. Rick Holtz All of my close male friends have been straight. Treat sex as special and be labeled a homophobe. Maybe being gay conflicts with your beliefs, or you're just so shocked and confused you really don't know how to react. I was exactly like those young guys when i was young until i realise that it was me who had a problem.
Ahhh the age old question. Perhaps you have always wanted a gay friend or maybe you just want to meet other gay and lesbian people like you. Why would your being 5'5" tall make you undesirable to have as a friend? If people are going to just drain you, why bother? I'm a year-old woman and I haven't had a close friend since high school.
Masc Pride …luckily we can forge friendships based on things other than sexual orientation. Submitted by Karen on January 28, - pm. Same for me, my parents didn't really have any friends n now What if your friends have no gay friends for it it seems do I.
And what they like about girls! We both liked the Spice Girls, and that was enough for me. Might we offend? I read It Gets Better because that felt like a thing young closeted gay people were supposed to read. Dedicated to leading teens closer to Christ, we hope you'll be welcomed home to Hidden Lake soon.
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